Sunday, June 29, 2008

Hair!!!


My sister D.D. reads my blog, so I am posting this photo of the back of my HUGE head (I thought I'd go ahead and put that since I know Will intends to anyway) to show her how much my hair has grown. I decided to grow it out since I've been married nearly 20 years and my husband has never seen my hair long. All of my women friends who have grown their hair out KNOWS how hard this can be!! Ugh! And let me not fail to mention I took on this task during the summer ... what the heck was I thinking?


From USA Today

I know I haven't blogged in a while. I have good intentions, but priorities prevail. I am posting today two different letters that were published in USA Today - one in last Monday's paper, and the other, a retort from the weekend edition. They both concern stewardship ... two different women and two different lives. The first letter reminds of someone I know who judges everyone without looking outside her own little box; the second letter reminds me how we should never assume we know the whole story. See for yourself ...

LETTER #1: Where is reward for good stewards?
Sarah Kapcar - Cincinnati
For some reason, I feel like an American anomaly. No, I am not perfect, just confused. My husband and I own our beautiful three-bedroom home in a great suburban neighborhood. We could have moved into a big two-story home with a three-car garage. We could have sent our kids to private school, but we thought better ("
How rising home values placed your finances at risk," Cover story, News, Wednesday).
I work only part-time, and raising our two sons, ages 20 and 17, has been my real career. We have no credit card debt. Yes, we use our credit, but we pay off our balances monthly. I could have used those credit cards for a pair of Manolo Blahniks but thought better.
My Chevy is a lease, but my husband's older car is paid for. He could have purchased that new Audi but thought better.
We could be just like all the other Americans who are in trouble, but we thought better. We have been lucky in terms of maintaining good health and jobs, and I can understand how some families today need financial help.
Where is my government thank-you for being responsible and not going into debt and facing foreclosure?
How can some people spend so freely and not think better?

LETTER #2: Hard times hit even good stewards
I laughed when I read the letter "Where is reward for good stewards?" from USA TODAY reader Sarah Kapcar (Monday).
She has two sons. I had one who died of cancer three years ago. He was 8 years old. The hospital bills drove us to bankruptcy. My husband went back and forth from work to the hospital so much that he lost his job. It took him more than a year to get another one, which paid less.
Now we have a mortgage we can't afford, and no bank will refinance us because of the bankruptcy.
I forgot to mention that on Sept. 28, my mom passed away. She had been very ill for more than six months. I spent a lot of gas going between my house and the nursing home to visit her.
All this time I thought we were having a run of really bad luck. Now I understand it. If only we were better stewards, all of this would not have happened.
The good news is we own one vehicle, so when we are evicted from our house we can live in it.
Thank goodness for small miracles, and my husband and I will keep working on that stewardship stuff.
Tracy Grady
Mesa, Ariz.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

When is it enough?

I know I haven't taken the time to blog lately. Will reminded me that I still haven't posted pics of my trip to New York, and I have good intentions to do that in the very near future ... however, I had to post a link to a story that illuminates (yet again) how poorly Bush's administration has bungled the fiasco in Iraq. I mean, after you read this story you have to ask yourself if ANYTHING positive will come out of the American efforts in Iraq. If this is our best effort .... well, then it's REALLY time to pack up and get the hell outta Dodge ..

http://www.insidehighered.com/news/2008/06/11/iraq

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

I'm outta here!!

I leave in a few hours for New York City ... and I can't begin to describe how excited I am. It has been a tough two semesters, and I need a HUGE break. Karli, my friend I am going to see, has e-mailed me the link to the restaurant we are going on Friday night to celebrate her graduation (http://www.nybarolo.com/events.cfm). She lives in SoHo, so it's one of the many fabulous restaurants that surrounds her digs.

I will take TONS of pics and I am bringing my video camera ... that may motivate me to learn how to attach video on this thing.

I will miss Ron and my kids terribly, but I think leaving for a few days will illuminate just how much I do around here!!

See y'all on the flip side ...

J

Friday, May 09, 2008

Absolutely amazing ...

I cannot control my fingers at this moment in time. I just read the-hands-down-more-stupid-than-I-could-ever-imagine statement ... something to the effect of "don't vote emotionally." The reason this is soooooooooooooooo freakin' stupid is because it is coming from someone who is SUCH a hypocrite who wouldn't know how to make a decision based on critical thinking if her life depended upon it. This person makes seemingly EVERY decision based on emotion. She is critical of others (daily, I might add), she is judgmental, she has lost the power of thinking on her own, and she hides under the veil of being a "Christian" so her comments and actions should be forgiven. This person ceases to understand that sitting in church doesn't make you a Christian any more than sitting in a garage makes you a car.

Noooooow, this person is giving her opinion on who we should vote for by "researching the candidates" when CLEARLY she has not done her own!!!! She is upset because someone she has respect for has made the decision to vote for a candidate she is against. The nerve!!! Oh, she tries the cover-up by writing, "I respect that everyone has their own opinion." Oh, really? Who does she think she's fooling? Such a crime ... someone is actually thinking on their own without falling into the line on the right. Such a pity ...

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. WTF?

Honey, if you dare read this ... make sure to leave this page with this one thought -

STEP AWAY FROM THE KEYBOARD. You're embarrassing your family ...

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

The Most Beautiful Boy in the World

Okay ... so maybe not in the WHOLE world, but at least in MY world. This is his school picture. The first in a very long time that didn't end up in the bottom of the drawer. Ain't he handsome?

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

3000 K's!!!!!!!!

Tonight John Smoltz, Atlanta Braves pitcher, made major league history. He is now #16 on the all-time strikeout list by hitting # 3,000 strikeout against the Washington Nationals.

Smoltzy has always, and will always remain, my favorite sports figure. I am so proud of him ... I cried when he struck Lopez out. I truly did!

I know some may think this is stupid and silly ... and I don't care if you're one of them. This feat is incredible ... he has shown strength, perseverance, and fight-to-the-end attitude to reach this milestone.


Hats off to you, John ... congratulations!!!!


From Sports Illustrated:


ATLANTA -- At this stage in his long career, being a strikeout pitcher is not what John Smoltz really needs to be. He'll be 41 next month, you know. He's closing in on 3,500 innings of hard, sometimes painful work. He's been through four elbow operations and, as of this moment, his right shoulder is being particularly bothersome. It wouldn't be such a bad idea, once in a while, to sacrifice a few strikeouts for a couple more quick, groundball outs.
But you can't change what you are -- well, Smoltz can, but it's getting a little late to do that again -- so a strikeout pitcher is what he'll remain, right up to the time he decides to hit the golf course for good. And when he makes his trek to the Hall of Fame sometime in the next decade, which he surely will do, he'll be feted as a great strikeout artist then, too. One of the best ever.
Tuesday, with the sun dropping behind the stands on the third-base side of Turner Field on a beautiful spring evening, Smoltz muscled his way past the most important milestone of his wonderfully quirky career, strikeout No. 3,000. Only 15 other pitchers in history have done that -- it's a feat that's been accomplished less often than a perfect game (17), 300 career wins (23), 500 home runs (23) or 3,000 hits (27) -- and of those who have, Bert Blyleven is the only one eligible for induction into the Hall who isn't in yet. Only five members of the fraternity of 3,000 -- Roger Clemens, Randy Johnson, Pedro Martinez, Nolan Ryan and Curt Schilling -- have done it in fewer innings.
This was a career-defining moment for Smoltz, a Cy Young Award winner as a starter in '96, the National League's most dominant closer for the better part of three years in the early part of this decade and, all along, one of the toughest postseason pitchers of his or many other generations. You could tell it was important to him, too. The normally steady Smoltz had to step off the mound on a couple of occasions to compose himself with a small but screaming crowd of 23,482 egging him on. He said later he was as nervous as he was in his first pennant race, 17 years ago. "They caused me to do something I'm really not wanting to do, which is rev up ... with two strikes," he said. "I've never been that anxious with two strikes."
When he fooled the Nationals' Felipe Lopez into swinging over a splitter in the dirt for No. 3,000 -- after shaking off a couple of signs -- a grim-faced Smoltz pumped his fist quietly and allowed himself a long, slow exhale. He walked forward to hug his catcher, Brian McCann. He embraced third baseman Chipper Jones and worked clockwise around the rest of the infield. He wandered behind the mound to tip his hat to the crowd.
"He was awfully strong. He couldn't have been any stronger," said Braves manager Bobby Cox.
"He was awesome, man. Smoltzie was Smoltzie tonight," said McCann.
This was, in many ways, the final frontier for Smoltz to cross. It was a whiff that can't be ignored, a strikeout to shut up the skeptics.
"They normally don't ...," Smoltz, searching for the right words, said of his strikeouts, "... it's no big deal. But today, for one single moment, it certainly was an incredible moment. I think the course of my career has made this very special."
Smoltz is, and always has been, a different kind of a pitcher, hard to categorize, hard to figure. Packed with talent but with no idea of how to pitch when he came up in 1988, he worked and willed himself into being one of the best starters in baseball. In 1992 he added a split-fingered fastball to a high-90s fastball and a devastating slider, perfected the pitch in his Cy Young year (when he went 24-8 with a 2.94 ERA) and became, not too arguably, the most naturally gifted pitcher in maybe the best rotation ever assembled. With Greg Maddux and Tom Glavine, Smoltz was the mainstay of the Braves' streak of 14 straight division titles, the only of the three around for the entire run.

Sunday, April 06, 2008

Teenager in the House!



Yep ... my little boy is now a teenager. It seems completely unreal. I mean, it doesn't surprise me that in a few months Hannah will be 17. THAT, I can handle. But wow ... my little Eli ... is losing his innocence. Well, perhaps that's overstepping it a bit. He is still VERY innocent, but now he is ever closer to becoming ... a brat. UGH.

His birthday was just as he likes it ... uneventful and nearly unmarked. We didn't have a cake ... we had Skittles. We didn't wrap presents ... he opened them as they arrived in the mail. He wanted four DVD's: "The Day After Tomorrow" ... "School of Rock" ... "Wayne's World II" ... and "2007 World Series - Red Sox v. Rockies." With Skittles and DVD's in hand, he was on top of the world.

I am thankful that his birthday fell on spring break. Otherwise, his teachers might make mention that it was his birthday ... and that would send him under the table. It makes no difference how much I tell them NOT to bring attention to him ... they do it anyway. I am considering getting a t-shirt designed to read: PLEASE IGNORE ME. I DO NOT LIKE TO BE NOTICED. Thanks, my mom :)

Anway .. it will only be a little while before Ron will have to teach Eli how to shave. The boy is sprouting hair like nobody's business :-)

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

The BIG Apple

In less than two months, I will be traveling back to NYC to see my friend, Karli. This time I won't be going alone. Karli's mom, Linda, and her brother, Danny, will also be going. Oh yeah, and Karli's uncles Micky and Lavaughn will be headed there, too. Um ... two more are going, too. Natasha and Kristin will be headed to NY also. I can't even imagine how much fun we're going to have. we're all flying out on the same flight ... it leaves on a Thursday morning at 6:45 a.m. We're all trying to decide what kind of hats we'll be wearing on the plane.

Yeah ... hats. We are an entourage, so we must do something to let everyone know we're all together. Also, the motivation of seeing Karli's face when she meets us at JFK is pushing this idea. She'll be mortified ... we will have succeeded.

Karli is graduating from Marymount College in Manhattan. I believe her degree is international business ... I can't really remember. She's going to stay in Manhattan for a few years and work before she heads to graduate school. Scary thought --> she called me and asked for advice as to what to do after graduation. Yikes. The pressure. She works for some big law firm in Manhattan and they, of course, love her. She's doing everything a paralegal does, so she can either stay at the law firm where she is now, or go to another one who's offered her a job and become a certified paralegal. Either way, she'll make enough to live in the city and work for a year or two. She needs to have fun and sew some oats before she begins grad school. Life is over then (cough) ...

While in NYC we'll go and see "Wicked" on Broadway, and go to the Yankees/Mets game. Oh yeah, and I'll spend an entire day in Chinatown - CAN'T WAIT !!!











Four days of fun, fun, fun .... I'll need it after this semester. I've wanted to quit twice already ....
... sometimes I hate being an overachiever ... it can really suck.
NYC here I come ...



Monday, March 10, 2008

My latest project


Meet Jason. He's my latest project at work. He is attending college at my institution ... well, NOW he is. He's from England ... came here on a soccer scholarship ... and soon after arriving decided not to go to class. Oh, with that decision came the idea that none of his assignments had to be completed as well. He failed his first semester flat. He didn't even have a GPA. It was 0.


But now ... he's the greatest thing since sliced bread. He goes to class ... he writes his papers ... he completes his assignments ... earns grades that reflect his continued efforts ... and continues to drive the soccer coach insane (which, in my mind, is pretty awesome).


This pic is Jason holding my UGA cup ... a slight at his girlfriend's college (she's a Gator, poor girl). I like this picture of him because it reminds me why I get up every morning and leave my family ... it's to work with kids like Jason. He, like everyone in the world, has enormous potential.


He says he "fancies me."


I fancy him, too. Keep it up, Jason.

Kite flying





















Do you remember when you first flew a kite as a child? I don't remember my first experience ... I wish I could. I wish so I could compare it to how much fun it was watching Eli fly a kite for the first time. We tried a few years ago, but E-man would have none of it.
This past weekend Hannah had her friend, Caroline (in one of the pics), over for the weekend. That meant 3 kites ... and lots and lots of trees ...

THE lawnmower

I had intentions of giving a title of RON'S NEW TOY ... but I soon realized I've actually used that title before. It is apparent that Ron really likes his toys ...

Allow me to introduce everyone to THE lawnmower. I've been told that it "will last over 20 years" and our three acres can be mowed "in only 45 minutes."

Oh yeah, and one other tidbit about the greatest lawnmower ever sold ...

It costs $6000.

Yeah.

I know.

Yeah.

Me, too.

Yeah, it mows grass.

Um ... yeah.

A bad day


No, not today ... today was pretty normal. LAST WEEK ... I had a bad day. It's not important why ... I'm not attempting to have my friends feel sorry for me. Unlike others, I prefer to draw people to me for my positive outlook, not pity me.

Anywho ... I wanted to post the picture of the flowers my friend Karli sent me. She spoke with me the morning I was sad ... and four hours later, my friend Kristen is delivering flowers for Karli. The card read, "Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising everytime we fall."

A lovely thought from a lovely friend ... and apologies to Karli for such a fuzzy photo. Even if the photo was clearer, a photo will not do justice to the beauty of these flowers.

Thanks Karli ... I'll always be there for you, too.


J

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Insurance companies




Grrrr. I had a fender bender yesterday. At first, the policeman told me it was my fault ... and after it was over I called one of my former students (who happens to be the assistant chief of police) to investigate. He did ... and lo and behold ... I wasn't at fault. The woman driving the car I hit was crossing a double yellow line to make a u-turn. There was no way I could have seen her ... so the re-written police report reflects that it was not my fault.




Well ... the woman's insurance company is going to fight me about it. What does that mean? You know, besides taking precious time out of my life to deal with this crap? It means I'll have to pay my $1000 deductible to get my vehicle fixed, and then wait for court so I can get my money back. I give everyone my solemn promise here ... if the other insurance company wants to fight, they're going to have to pay a WHOLE bunch more than what it costs to get it fixed.




Craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaap!!

Monday, March 03, 2008

Oh. My. God.

How long has it been? 4 months? Are all of you wondering where the hell I've been? Missing me, right? Awww, come on Will ... you've missed me. Admit it.

Well, I've just been too busy with other crap in my life to detail all the crap here. I'm sure you all understand. There has been waaaaaay too much that has happened in the last 4 months to go back and fill in the blanks ... so I won't attempt to do that. I also can't promise I will be as good as I'd like to be in keeping up with this blog. This semester I am working (of course) with the addition of teaching two classes and taking two classes (Research Methods & Models II and Advanced Grammar & Syntax). My brain is mush ... Will may argue it has ALWAYS been mush, but it is really, really mush now.

Family is doing well. No change there.

Ahh, but tomorrow is D.D.'s birthday ... I must document in print this historic occasion! What is it ... 50th yet? Hmmm, I must give a quick call to mi madre ... I wouldn't want to give her any more of any less years in my posting.

Be on the lookout ...

J

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

I almost forgot!


I didn't relay the news about my weekend debate trip to ATL. Ohhhhhh my God ... the word "clusterf--k" comes to mind when considering how disorganized the conference was the entire weekend. When we arrived they told me they didn't have our paperwork so we would have to leave. I kept my cool ... and called our program's administrative assistant and she worked everything out. So ... we got our rooms - 3 rooms: Lester and his wife in one, Danny and Zarko in one, and me, Tasha, Naama, and Sarah in the other. Now ... important note here ... Lester and his wife drove up to ATL separately, so all of the other people I mentioned drove with me in one of the college's vans. I was driving, of course. So ... anyone who's driven from T-town to ATL knows it's only about a 4 hour drive. It took us SEVEN hours. Why? Because we stopped at every whim. On one of those particular "whims," we found a community thrift shop. The guy who worked there was mentally challenged and we ran into him at the store next to the thrift shop. He invited us to come and browse ... and so we did. The picture depicts what I bought. We affectionately call her "Goldie." She became our good luck charm ... our talisman, if you will. I wish I had a video of when she was carried through the lobby of the hotel ... into the glass elevator ...and into the guy's room.

I can't post ALL of the pictures we took of her. I was with college students after all ... so some of the pics are X-rated. Suffice to say ... alcohol didn't help stop Danny and Zarko from performing lewd acts for the camera. I put them on my facebook ... go there to see more.

Ohhhh, and Goldie didn't prove to be that much of a good luck charm. We didn't make it to finals, but I am so proud of our debate team. They were critical thinkers ... and I couldn't have asked for more professionalism than they showed that day.

We stayed in both nights - the first night we practiced. The second night ... we drank and played spades in the hotel lobby bar. We had sooooooo much fun ... a weekend I won't soon forget. Not only because we had so much fun, but because Tasha snored so loudly that we had to buy a box fan (for the noise) and ear plugs on Saturday just to get some sleep.

All in all ... I haven't had that much fun since New York this past summer ... and THAT was really fun.


J

Thanksgiving

Well, we had our first Thanksgiving in our new house. We moved in last year a week before Christmas, so this was the first Thanksgiving. I, of course, cooked for an army even though it was just me, Ron, and the kids. I did have a method to my madness, which was that I didn't have to cook again for FOUR days. Can you say ... leftovers?
Of course, Thanksgiving wouldn't be complete without some killing, right? The picture says it all ... this was one of Ron's "kills" this past holiday weekend. Some people at this time of year smell burning leaves, fireplaces lit, turkeys in the oven ... I smelled a dead deer in the rut. Peeeeeeeeeeeuuuuuuuuuwwwwww.
Thankfully I only have two more weeks of classes. All I have left to do is three lesson plans, a Powerpoint on action research, finish my research proposal, and write roughly 6 book summaries (have to equal 3500 pages). That's all ...
Not too much else going on right now ... oh, other than my phone call to the Chief of Police (a former student of mine) yesterday complaining about the traffic situation in front of the high school. When I dropped Hannah off this morning there was TWO officers out on the road directing traffic ... when my sister-in-law picked up Hannah this afternoon she called to tell me there was FOUR officers out on the road giving tickets! The next step is writing an e-mail to the superintendent (and copying the school board members) about the rudeness of the principal at the high school. When I called him yesterday to ask what he could do about the unruliness exhibited in the school parking lot, he copped an attitude with me on the phone. Um ... 'scuse me???? Is this how it's going to be? Oh, okay ... no problemo ...

So ... I'm outta here for now to begin formulating my e-mail to the superintendent ...

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

H-O-T-L-A-N-T-A


Me and 6 college students are headed to Atlanta this weekend for a debate competition. We've been practicing for a month (learning the Parliamentary method of debate, no less ... "boo hiss"), so I hope they're ready. It'll be easy for me ... just watching :)
Normally I'd be psyched to head to Hotlanta ... of course, normally I'd be headed to watch my Braves play .... but nooooooooooooooo, the damn season had to end :(
Anyway, when I return I'll post some pics of the competition. Joy, right Will?
At least the hotel will be nice ... can you say, Heavenly Bed?

Wednesday, November 07, 2007

My kids from Scholar's Academy


Here in big 'ol Thomasville, we have a special school (which is an extension of a local middle and high school) called the Scholar's Academy. As the title implies, students attending are academically gifted (hence: scholar). I tend to believe it borders on elitism, but that's another blog posting in the future ;) ... anyway, I teach there 2 days a week. The 12 kids in the pictures are earning their Associates of Arts degree WHILE they're earning their high school diploma. They are all 10th graders now, so when they graduate in 2010 (gosh that sounds so far away ... like we'll finally be driving hover craft) with their high school diploma, they'll also graduate with their associates degree. Cool, right?

Anyhoooo ... the institution created some shirts for the kids (you can't see on the shirts, but they have embroidered "The AA List" on the front left pocket area) ... and I gave them to the kids today. We all walked across the street to MacIntyre Park to take a quick shot, and this is one where they are being silly.

I really like this group ... they're smart, funny, and very energetic. Oh, and they're VERY VERY COMPETITIVE. I have to mention weekly that GRADES DO NOT DEFINE YOU ... but I'm wondering if that is sinking in ...

I'll keep ya posted ...